Depersonalization Anxiety Symptoms

Written by Jim Folk
Medically reviewed by Marilyn Folk, BScN.
Last updated September 25, 2024

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Depersonalization (also referred to as "derealization") is a common symptom of anxiety disorder. Many anxiety disorder sufferers get depersonalization as a symptom, especially when anxiety has become chronic.

There are many reasons why anxiety can cause depersonalization (derealization) symptoms. This article explains four of the most common reasons and what you can do to get rid of anxiety-caused depersonalization and derealization symptoms.

Depersonalization (derealization) anxiety symptoms description:

Common descriptions of the depersonalization, derealization anxiety symptoms:

  • Depersonalized, depersonalization anxiety.
  • Detached from reality.
  • Out of touch with reality.
  • In a dream-like state.
  • Not part of reality.
  • Out of body feeling.
  • Derealization, derealized.
  • That you are observing yourself from outside your body.
  • Like things aren’t real.
  • Dream-like.
  • Like you are living in a dream.
  • Disconnected from reality and the real world.
  • Like you are disconnected from your real thoughts and emotions.
  • Like you are a stranger in your own body.
  • Like you aren't alive.
  • Like you are a zombie.
  • Like you are detached from your normal thoughts and emotions.
  • Like your emotions are detached from reality.

To name a few.

Depersonalization can:

  • Occur occasionally, frequently, or persistently.
  • Precede, accompany, or follow an escalation of other anxiety symptoms or occur by itself.
  • Precede, accompany, or follow a period of nervousness, anxiety, fear, and stress, or occur "out of the blue" for no reason.
  • Range in intensity from slight, to moderate, to severe.
  • Come in waves where it’s strong one moment and eases off the next.
  • Occur for a while, subside, and then return for no reason.
  • Change from day to day, moment to moment, or remain as a constant background during your struggle with anxiety disorder.

This symptom can seem more noticeable when undistracted, resting, trying to sleep, or when waking up.

All the above combinations and variations are common.

To see if anxiety might be playing a role in your anxiety symptoms, rate your level of anxiety using our free one-minute instant results Anxiety Test, Anxiety Disorder Test, or Hyperstimulation Test.

The higher the rating, the more likely it could be contributing to your anxiety symptoms, including depersonalization / derealization anxiety symptoms.

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What causes depersonalization, derealization anxiety symptoms?

Medical Advisory

Talk to your doctor about all new, changing, persistent, and returning symptoms as some medical conditions and medications can cause anxiety-like symptoms.

Additional Medical Advisory Information.

There are many reasons why anxiety can cause depersonalization symptoms. Here are four of the most common:

1. Anxiety and an active stress response

Anxious behavior, such as worry, activates the fight or flight response, also known as the stress response.[1] The stress response releases stress hormones, which are stimulants, into the bloodstream to prepare the body for immediate action – either to fight or flee.

As these hormones travel throughout the body, they cause physiological, psychological, and emotional changes in how the body functions so that our defenses are maximized. This emergency readiness heightens emergency functions while suppressing non-emergency functions.[2]

While these changes affect many parts of the body, they also affect how the brain interacts with itself. For example, when stress hormones are at normal levels, the rationalization, learning, and emotional areas of the brain interact normally.[3] This normal interaction allows us to think, remember, and experience thoughts and emotions normally. As a result, we FEEL normal, experience normal emotions and thinking processes, and feel complete within ourselves and in our reality.

However, when we perceive danger, this interaction changes. For example, stress hormones cause the amygdala, the fear center of the brain, to become dominant while causing the rationalization and learning centers of the brain to become suppressed.[4] It makes this change because our priority becomes survival when in dangerous situations. All functions that aren’t involved in the emergency response mechanism are suppressed so that the body can maximize its resources to either defend ourselves against or run away from the threat. While this change enhances our emergency readiness, it impairs our ability to think clearly and remember short-term information.

This emergency-readiness change in brain function can create a sense of “depersonalization” while the stress response is active.

The stress response causes other changes, too, such as heightening our senses, dilating the pupils, rushing blood to the head, narrowing vision, increasing fear detection and reaction, and so on. All of these changes can also alter our sense of perception, reasoning, and emotions, which can enhance a sense of depersonalization.

For more detailed information about the many changes the stress response brings about, visit our “Stress Response” article.

Stress responses are supposed to cause these changes. It’s part of the body’s instinctual survival mechanism. As the perception of danger increases, so does the body’s level of emergency preparedness.

When anxious behavior has triggered a stress response, we can experience an acute feeling of depersonalization.

2. Stress-response hyperstimulation

When stress responses occur infrequently, the body can recover relatively quickly from the physiological, psychological, and emotional changes the stress response brings about. However, when stress responses occur too frequently, the body can remain in a state of semi stress-response readiness, which we call stress-response hyperstimulation since stress hormones are powerful stimulants. Hyperstimulation can cause the body to exhibit symptoms of an active stress response even though a stress response hasn't been activated, and for as long as the body is hyperstimulated.

Hyperstimulation is a common cause of chronic depersonalization.

For instance, rationalization and short-term memory suppression due to sustained emergency readiness impairs the brain’s ability to rationally process and store new information.[5] Consequently, the areas of the brain that normally communicate well have difficulty doing so. This difficulty can be experienced as a disconnect between how we perceive, process, and store information, which can affect how we feel about ourselves and the world around us.

This combination of disconnects is at the root of feeling “separate” or “detached” from how we normally think, feel, and remember. “I feel like I’m living outside or separate from myself” is a common description of how this disconnect can be experienced.

Hyperstimulation caused “processing impairment” can make us feel depersonalized, separate from our self, separate from our reality, and cause memory, emotional, and even performance problems.

We feel depersonalized because the brain isn’t communicating with itself correctly due to the adverse effects of hyperstimulation.

It’s not that we are disconnected or detached from reality, but that the chronically stressed brain is having processing challenges. Therefore, it can SEEM like we are disconnected or detached from reality.

Essentially, depersonalization is a brain-processing problem and not a reality problem.

As such, depersonalization is just another symptom of chronic stress (hyperstimulation). Chronic anxiety and stress often produce this symptom.

3. Hyper- and Hypoventilation

Hyper- or hypoventilation is another cause of depersonalization.[6] When we breathe too shallowly and don’t take in enough oxygen (hypoventilation), CO2 levels in the blood drop, which can cause a depersonalization feeling.

If, on the other hand, you are breathing too aggressively and take in too much oxygen (hyperventilation), CO2 levels in the blood can rise, which can also cause a depersonalization feeling.

Even though depersonalization caused by breathing issues can seem odd and even unsettling, they are harmless and needn’t be a cause for concern. They will subside when breathing is normalized. Depersonalization caused by hyper- and hypoventilation is typically a temporary condition and isn’t the cause of chronic depersonalization.

4. Adverse effects of medication

Depersonalization can also be an adverse effect of medication, including anti-anxiety and antidepressant medications.[7] If you believe your depersonalization is caused by an adverse effect of medication, you should discuss this with your doctor and pharmacist.

I (Jim Folk) also experienced depersonalization…and to a severe degree. It scared the daylights out of me when it first occurred. In my hyper-reactive state, having my reality altered was the last thing I needed. Since depersonalization shook the foundations of my reality, I reacted badly to it initially. I had no idea what it was or what was causing it, so I imagined the worst: brain tumor, MS, ALS, some other serious mental illness or neurological disease, or that I was drifting into another state of consciousness. Even though I found out that depersonalization was a common anxiety symptom, it still took me a long time to accept it and not react to it.

While depersonalization can be unsettling and impairing, it’s not harmful in itself or an indication of something more serious. It’s just another symptom of hyperstimulation, and therefore, needn’t be a cause for concern.

Similar to ALL anxiety sensations and symptoms, when you work to eliminate hyperstimulation and give the body sufficient time to recover, depersonalization subsides as hyperstimulation is eliminated.

Once again, many people experience depersonalization anxiety feelings when the body is hyperstimulated. The difference, however, is that people who aren’t overly anxious don’t worry about it whereas anxious people do. Since worry is apprehensive behavior that activates the stress response, worry can aggravate hyperstimulation and cause the depersonalization symptoms to persist.

5. Other Factors

Other factors can create stress and cause anxiety-like symptoms, as well as aggravate existing anxiety symptoms, including:

Select the relevant link for more information.

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Depersonalization anxiety symptoms treatment

When other factors cause or aggravate this anxiety symptom, addressing the specific cause can reduce and eliminate depersonalization.

When an active stress response causes this symptom, ending the active stress response will cause this acute anxiety symptom to subside.

Keep in mind that it can take the body up to 20 minutes or more to recover from a major stress response. But this is normal and needn’t be a cause for concern.

When hyperstimulation (chronic stress) causes depersonalization, eliminating hyperstimulation will end this anxiety symptom.

You can eliminate hyperstimulation by:

  • Reducing stress.
  • Containing anxious behavior (since anxiety creates stress).
  • Regular deep relaxation.
  • Avoiding stimulants.
  • Regular light to moderate exercise.
  • Eating a healthy diet of whole and natural foods.
  • Passively accepting your symptoms until they subside.
  • Being patient as your body recovers.

Visit our “60 Natural Ways To Reduce Stress” article for more ways to reduce stress.

Recovery Support members can view chapters 5, 6, 7, 14 and more for more detailed information about recovering from hyperstimulation and anxiety disorder.

As the body recovers from hyperstimulation, it stops sending symptoms, including this one.

Symptoms of chronic stress subside as the body regains its normal, non-hyperstimulated health.

However, eliminating hyperstimulation can take much longer than most people think, causing symptoms to linger longer than expected.

As long as the body is even slightly hyperstimulated, it can present symptoms of any type, number, intensity, duration, frequency, and at any time, including this one.

Even so, since depersonalization is a common symptom of stress, including anxiety-caused stress, it's harmless and needn't be a cause for concern. It will subside when unhealthy stress has been eliminated, and the body has had sufficient time to recover. Therefore, there is no reason to worry about it.

Since worrying and becoming upset about anxiety symptoms stress the body, these behaviors can interfere with recovery.

Passively accepting your symptoms—allowing them to persist without reacting to, resisting, worrying about, or fighting them—while doing your recovery work will eventually cause their cessation.

Acceptance, practice, and patience are key to recovery.

Keep in mind that it can take a long time for the body to recover from hyperstimulation. It's best to faithfully work at your recovery despite the lack of apparent progress.

However, if you persevere with your recovery work, you will succeed.

When you do the right work, the body has to recover!

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Recovery Support

The Recovery Support area of our website contains thousands of pages of important self-help information to help individuals overcome anxiety disorder, hyperstimulation, and symptoms.

Due to the vast amount of information, including a private Discussion Forum, many of our Recovery Support members consider it their online recovery support group.

Therapy

Unidentified and unaddressed underlying factors cause issues with anxiety. As such, they are the primary reason why anxiety symptoms persist.

Addressing your underlying factors (Level Two recovery) is most important if you want lasting success.

Addressing Level Two recovery can help you:

  • Contain anxious behavior.
  • Become unafraid of anxiety symptoms and the strong feelings of anxiety.
  • End anxiety symptoms.
  • Successfully address the underlying factors that so often cause issues with anxiety.
  • End what can feel like out-of-control worry.

All our recommended anxiety therapists have had anxiety disorder and overcame it. Their personal experience with anxiety disorder and their Master's Degree and above professional training give them insight other therapists don't have.

If you want to achieve lasting success over anxiety disorder, any one of our recommended therapists would be a good choice.

Working with an experienced anxiety disorder therapist is the most effective way to treat anxiety disorder, especially if you have persistent symptoms and difficulty containing anxious behavior, such as worry.[8][9][10]

In many cases, working with an experienced therapist is the only way to overcome stubborn anxiety.

Research has shown that therapy is the most effective treatment for anxiety disorder, and distance therapy (via phone or the Internet) is equally, if not more effective, than face-to-face in-person therapy.[11][12]

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Video

Play the clip below for Jim Folk's commentary about the anxiety symptom depersonalization. Jim Folk is the president of anxietycentre.com.

 

Depersonalization is a common symptom of chronic stress, including anxiety-caused stress. Jim Folk experienced depersonalization to a severe degree during his 12-year struggle with anxiety disorder.

For a more detailed explanation about anxiety and its symptoms, why symptoms can persist long after the stress response has ended, common barriers to recovery and symptom elimination, and more recovery strategies and tips, we have many chapters that address this information in the Recovery Support area of our website.

Prevalence

In an online poll we conducted, 70 percent of respondents said they have depersonalization as an anxiety symptom.

The combination of good self-help information and working with an experienced anxiety disorder therapist, coach, or counselor is the most effective way to address anxiety and its many symptoms. Until the core causes of anxiety are addressed – which we call the underlying factors of anxiety – a struggle with anxiety unwellness can return again and again. Dealing with the underlying factors of anxiety is the best way to address problematic anxiety.

Additional Resources

Return to our Anxiety Articles page.

anxietycentre.com: Information, support, and therapy for anxiety disorder and its symptoms, including Depersonalization, Derealization anxiety symptoms.

References

1. Chu, Brianna, et al. “Physiology, Stress Reaction.” StatPearls, 7 May 2024.

2. Godoy, Livea, et al. "A Comprehensive Overview on Stress Neurobiology: Basic Concepts and Clinical Implications." Frontiers In Behavioral Neuroscience, 3, July 2018.

3. Louisiana State University Health Sciences Center. "Emotional stress can change brain function." ScienceDaily. ScienceDaily, 12 January 2011.

4. Shields, Grant, et al. "The Effects of Acute Stress on Core Executive Functions: A Meta-Analysis and Comparison with Cortisol." Neuroscience and Behavior, 28 June 2016.

5. “Short-Term Stress Can Affect Learning And Memory.” ScienceDaily, ScienceDaily, 13 Mar. 2008, .

6. Meuret, Alicia E., and Thomas Ritz. “Hyperventilation in Panic Disorder and Asthma: Empirical Evidence and Clinical Strategies.” NCBI PubMed, U.S. National Library of Medicine, Oct. 2010.

7. "Antidepressant Side Effects: List Of Possibilities.” Mental Health Daily, 23 Aug. 2014.

8. Hofmann, Stefan G., et al. “The Efficacy of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy: A Review of Meta-Analyses.” Cognitive Therapy and Research, U.S. National Library of Medicine, 1 Oct. 2012.

9. Leichsenring, Falk. “Is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy the Gold Standard for Psychotherapy?” JAMA, American Medical Association, 10 Oct. 2017.

10. DISCLAIMER: Because each body is somewhat chemically unique, and because each person will have a unique mix of symptoms and underlying factors, recovery results may vary. Variances can occur for many reasons, including due to the severity of the condition, the ability of the person to apply the recovery concepts, and the commitment to making behavioral change.

11. Kingston, Dawn.“Advantages of E-Therapy Over Conventional Therapy.” Psychology Today, Sussex Publishers, 11 Dec. 2017.

12. Markowitz, John, et al. “Psychotherapy at a Distance.” Psychiatry Online, March 2021.