Forgetfulness and Anxiety
Forgetfulness and memory lapses, such as forgetting things you usually don’t forget, having short-term memory impairment, and forgetting what you just did a short while ago, are common anxiety symptoms, including anxiety and panic attack symptoms.
This article explains the relationship between anxiety and forgetfulness and memory lapses.
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Forgetfulness, Memory Lapses Common Anxiety Symptom Descriptions
- You forget things you usually wouldn’t.
- Your short-term memory is unusually impaired.
- You have difficulty remembering things that just happened a moment, a few moments, an hour, or even a few days ago.
- You are uncharacteristically forgetting things that just happened.
- You have a difficult time recalling things you wouldn’t normally forget.
- Things you once easily remembered are now easily forgotten.
- This uncharacteristic “forgetting” can lead to confusion and getting mentally “mixed up.”
- Many people refer to this symptom as being unusually “absentminded.”
Some examples include:
- You forget what you just ate for dinner.
- You forget what you were just talking about.
- You forget where you placed an item just a moment ago.
- You don’t remember what you did last night (or earlier this morning).
- You must repeatedly remind yourself what you need to do, yet you still forget.
And so on.
Forgetfulness can:
- Occur occasionally, frequently, or persistently.
- Precede, accompany, or follow an escalation of other anxiety symptoms or occur by itself.
- Precede, accompany, or follow a period of nervousness, anxiety, fear, and stress, or occur "out of the blue" for no reason.
- Range in intensity from mild, to moderate, to severe.
- Come in waves where it’s strong one moment and eases off the next.
- Occur for a while, subside, and then return for no reason.
- Change from day to day, moment to moment, or remain as a constant background during your struggle with anxiety disorder.
All the above combinations and variations are common.
To see if anxiety might be playing a role in your symptoms, rate your level of anxiety using our free one-minute instant results Anxiety Test, Anxiety Disorder Test, or Hyperstimulation Test.
The higher the rating, the more likely anxiety could be contributing to or causing your anxiety symptoms, including feeling like impending doom symptoms.
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Causes
Medical Advisory
Talk to your doctor about all new, changing, persistent, and returning symptoms as some medical conditions and medications can cause anxiety-like symptoms.
When this symptom is solely attributed to stress, including anxiety-caused stress, studies have found that stress can cause memory problems [1][2][3][4][5][6].
There are many reasons for this. Here are the most common:
1. The Stress Response
Anxious behavior activates the stress response. The stress response causes many physiological, psychological, and emotional changes that prepare the body for emergency action when we believe we could be in danger.
This survival reaction is often referred to as the fight or flight response [7][8].
Some of these changes include:
- Increases blood sugar so that we have an instant boost of energy.
- Stimulates the nervous system.
- Increases activity in the fear center of the brain (amygdala and others) and decreases activity in the rationalization areas of the brain (cortex and others). This change in brain function occurs to immediately react to danger rather than remain in danger as we figure things out. This change in brain function allows us to focus on potential threats while ignoring irrelevant information.
- Heightens most of the body’s senses so we can quickly detect and react to danger.
- Shunts blood to parts of the body that are more vital to survival, such as the brain, arms, legs, and vital organs, and away from parts that are less vital for survival, such as the stomach, digestive system, and skin.
- Increases respiration and heart rate to prepare the body for immediate action.
And so on.
The higher the degree of stress response, the greater the physiological, psychological, and emotional changes.
Visit our “Stress Response” article for more information about the stress response and the many changes it causes.
Since stress responses push the body beyond its balance point, stress responses stress the body. As such, anxiety stresses the body.
As mentioned, stress can cause problems with memory, especially short-term memory.
Many anxious people have memory problems due to stress.
More specifically:
Stress increases electrical activity in parts of the brain.
Stress responses increase electrical activity in parts of the brain. Increased electrical activity causes the brain to increase thought generation and at a faster rate.
An increase in thought generation can cause our attention to be easily distracted, resulting in split attention and focus, making learning and remembering difficult.
The stress response alters brain function.
Stress hormones suppress the rationalization areas of the brain (cortex and others) and increase activity in the fear center of the brain (amygdala and others).
This combination reduces the ability to logically rationalize and process information while increasing the awareness of danger, fear, apprehension, gloom and doom – many describe anxiety as a sense of sudden or ongoing foreboding and doom.
While this change in brain function can benefit us when in danger, the downside is that it reduces memory performance, especially short-term memory.
The stress response suppresses the hippocampus - the learning and memory area of the brain.
The hippocampus is thought to be the primary area of the brain responsible for learning and memory. Stress hormones suppress the activity in the hippocampus, making it more difficult to store and retrieve information.
For instance, University of California, Irvine researchers found that short-term stress lasting as little as a few hours can impair brain-cell communication in areas associated with learning and memory [9].
Stress causes fatigue, impairing memory.
Stress, including anxiety-caused stress, taxes the body’s energy resources harder and faster than normal. Overly taxed energy resources can cause the body to become fatigued. Fatigue can impair memory.
As the body becomes fatigued, the brain has a more difficult time functioning normally. Fatigue is a common cause of memory problems, especially short-term memory.
Moreover, studies have found that the brain tires more quickly than the rest of the body. An exhausted brain loses its ability to think, remember, and reason much sooner than the body fatigues.
Many people notice they have memory and thinking problems when tired.
Stress adversely affects the connectivity between brain regions responsible for schema processing when encoding new information.
Research has found that prior knowledge, represented as a schema, facilitates memory encoding. Stress can impair the brain regions for this encoding, which can cause memory problems, especially with new or recent information [5].
Stress reduces dopamine.
Dopamine is a neurotransmitter associated with feelings of bliss, pleasure, and euphoria. It’s also associated with drive, motivation, focus, and concentration.
A reduction in dopamine can cause many symptoms, including reduced concentration and memory loss [6].
2. Hyperstimulation
When stress responses occur infrequently, the body can recover relatively quickly from the many stress response changes.
However, when stress responses occur too frequently, such as from overly apprehensive behavior, the body can’t complete recovery.
Incomplete recovery can leave the body in a state of semi-stress response readiness, which we call “stress-response hyperstimulation” since stress hormones are stimulants.
Hyperstimulation is also often referred to as “hyperarousal,” “HPA axis dysfunction,” or “nervous system dysregulation” [10][11].
Hyperstimulation can cause the changes of an active stress response even though a stress response hasn’t been activated.
Visit our “Hyperstimulation” article for more information about the many ways hyperstimulation can affect how we feel, including Nervous System Excitation and Dysregulation, Homeostatic Dysregulation, and Hormone Changes.
Hyperstimulation (chronic stress) is a common cause of chronic memory loss.
Many anxious people experience memory issues due to anxiety and hyperstimulation.
Some people say it feels like premature dementia since they have so many problems with memory and thinking, even though they know they are too young to have dementia.
3. Sleep disruption
Disrupted sleep can affect cognitive performance and working memory.
If anxiety, stress, or hyperstimulation affect the quality and length of good sleep, research has found that sleep disruption (acute or chronic) can negatively affect cognitive performance and memory (both short- and long-term) [12].
As the degree, frequency, and duration of sleep disruption increases, cognitive and memory performance decreases.
4. Behavior
Many anxious people develop a habit of being internally focused: ruminating about their health, how they feel, the implications of anxiety disorder and how that might affect their future, concerns about their recovery, questions about recovery, what others will think, how their struggle may affect their loved ones, and so on.
“Internal focus” is also a common cause of memory problems due to being easily distracted by all the “what if” scenarios and implications of long-term suffering.
It’s also common for anxious people to become so obsessed with trying to figure out their condition that everything else takes a back seat, including attention and focus on the external parts of their lives.
“Internal focus” and “what if” thinking can become so habituated that many anxious people aren’t aware they are doing it.
Recovery Support members can read more about internal focus in the sections “Inward Focused Thinking” and “Scanning, Testing, and Monitoring” in Chapter 6.
Unfortunately, when short-term memory and thinking problems occur, many anxious people become frightened and think they might be losing their mind, that they might be on the doorstep of a complete mental breakdown, or think their thinking and memory problems are an indication of a serious mental or biological illness, such as Alzheimer’s.
These anxieties can create more stress and distraction, making memory problems and other anxiety symptoms worse.
Other Factors
Other factors can create stress and cause anxiety-like symptoms, as well as aggravate existing anxiety symptoms, including:
- Medication
- Recreational drugs
- Stimulants
- Sleep deprivation
- Fatigue
- Hyper and hypoventilation
- Low blood sugar
- Nutritional deficiencies
- Dehydration
- Hormone changes
- Pain
Select the relevant link for more information.
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Treatment
When other factors cause or aggravate forgetfulness, addressing the specific cause can reduce and eliminate this symptom.
When an active stress response causes forgetfulness, ending the active stress response will cause this acute anxiety symptom to subside.
Keep in mind that it can take up to 20 minutes or more for the body to recover from a major stress response. But this is normal and needn’t be a cause for concern.
When hyperstimulation (chronic stress) causes forgetfulness, eliminating hyperstimulation will end this anxiety symptom.
You can eliminate hyperstimulation by:
- Reducing stress.
- Containing anxious behavior (since anxiety creates stress).
- Regular deep relaxation.
- Avoiding stimulants.
- Regular light to moderate exercise.
- Eating a healthy diet of whole and natural foods.
- Passively accepting your symptoms until they subside.
- Being patient as your body recovers.
Visit our “60 Natural Ways To Reduce Stress” article for more ways to reduce stress.
Recovery Support members can view chapters 5, 6, 7, 14 and more for more detailed information about recovering from hyperstimulation and anxiety disorder.
As the body recovers from hyperstimulation, it stops sending symptoms, including this one.
Symptoms of chronic stress subside as the body regains its normal, non-hyperstimulated health.
However, eliminating hyperstimulation can take much longer than most people think, causing symptoms to linger longer than expected.
As long as the body is even slightly hyperstimulated, it can present symptoms of any type, number, intensity, duration, frequency, and at any time, including this one.
Even so, since forgetfulness and memory lapses are common symptoms of stress, including anxiety-caused stress, they are harmless and needn't be a cause for concern. They will subside when unhealthy stress has been eliminated and the body has had sufficient time to recover. Therefore, there is no reason to worry about this common anxiety symptom.
Since worrying and becoming upset about anxiety symptoms stress the body, these behaviors can interfere with recovery.
Passively accepting your symptoms – allowing them to persist without reacting to, resisting, worrying about, or fighting them – while doing your recovery work will cause their cessation in time.
Acceptance, practice, and patience are key to recovery.
Keep in mind that it can take a long time for the body to recover from hyperstimulation. It's best to faithfully work at your recovery despite the lack of apparent progress.
However, if you persevere with your recovery work, you will succeed.
You also have to do your recovery work FIRST before your body can recover. The cumulative effects of your recovery work will produce results down the road. And the body's stimulation has to diminish before symptoms can subside.
- Reducing stress.
- Increasing rest.
- Faithfully practicing your recovery strategies.
- Passively accepting your symptoms.
- Containing anxious behavior.
- Being patient.
These will bring results in time.
When you do the right work, the body has to recover!
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Short-term strategies
Even though eliminating hyperstimulation will eliminate chronic anxiety symptoms, including forgetfulness and memory lapses, some people have found the following strategies helpful.
However, keep in mind that each person can have a unique symptom experience since each person is somewhat physically, chemically, psychologically, and emotionally unique. What might work for one person might not for another.
- Reduce stress – Since all anxiety symptoms are stress-related, reducing stress can alleviate this symptom. There are many ways to reduce stress. Recovery Support members can read many stress reduction strategies in Chapter 14.
- Regular good sleep – Getting good sleep each night (6.5 to 8 hours per night) can significantly reduce stress, which can improve all anxiety symptoms, including memory loss problems. Recovery Support members can read the Sleep section (Chapter 18) for more information about how return to good sleep after it has been disrupted by anxiety and hyperstimulation.
- Regular deep relaxation – Regular deep relaxation is a great way to reduce stress and overall stimulation. As stress and stimulation diminish, so will anxiety symptoms, including memory loss.
- Regular light to moderate exercise – Regular exercise is a proven way to reduce stress and improve stress symptoms. However, we don’t recommend strenuous exercise since it stresses the body.
- Catnap – Research has found catnaps can quickly restore energy and improve cognitive performance. Catnaps can restore memory if it is faltering due to anxiety and stress.
- Go for a leisure walk – Leisure walking is a great way to reduce stress and restore failing memory due to hyperstimulation. Even short walks of 10 minutes can help bring a return to sharp thinking and memory. Walking in nature is especially stress-reducing.
- Keep well hydrated – Dehydration is a common cause of stress-like symptoms, including memory problems. Keeping your body well hydrated can prevent anxiety-like symptoms, such as memory problems. Some doctors recommend drinking 2 litres of water per day.
Recovery Support
The Recovery Support area of our website contains thousands of pages of important self-help information to help individuals overcome anxiety disorder, hyperstimulation, and symptoms.
Due to the vast amount of information, including a private Discussion Forum, many of our Recovery Support members consider it their online recovery support group.
Therapy
Unidentified and unaddressed underlying factors cause issues with anxiety. As such, they are the primary reason why anxiety symptoms persist.
Addressing your underlying factors (Level Two recovery) is most important if you want lasting success.
Addressing Level Two recovery can help you:
- Contain anxious behavior.
- Become unafraid of anxiety symptoms and the strong feelings of anxiety.
- End anxiety symptoms.
- Successfully address the underlying factors that so often cause issues with anxiety.
- End what can feel like out-of-control worry.
All our recommended anxiety therapists have had anxiety disorder and overcame it. Their personal experience with anxiety disorder and their Master's Degree and above professional training give them insight other therapists don't have.
If you want to achieve lasting success over anxiety disorder, any one of our recommended therapists would be a good choice.
Working with an experienced anxiety disorder therapist is the most effective way to treat anxiety disorder, especially if you have persistent symptoms and difficulty containing anxious behavior, such as worry.[13][14][15]
In many cases, working with an experienced therapist is the only way to overcome stubborn anxiety.
Research has shown that therapy is the most effective treatment for anxiety disorder, and distance therapy (via phone or the Internet) is equally, if not more effective, than face-to-face in-person therapy.[16][17][18]
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Prevalence
In an online poll we conducted, 88 percent of respondents said they experienced abnormal forgetfulness and memory lapses because of their struggle with anxiety.
Again, while this symptom can be annoying, it’s merely a symptom of hyperstimulation and NOT an indication of something more serious.
Therefore, it needn’t be a cause for concern. Your normal memory will return when hyperstimulation has been eliminated, and your body has had sufficient time to recover and stabilize.
Common Anxiety Symptoms
Additional Resources
- For a comprehensive list of Anxiety Disorders Symptoms Signs, Types, Causes, Diagnosis, and Treatment.
- Anxiety and panic attacks symptoms can be powerful experiences. Find out what they are and how to stop them.
- How to stop an anxiety attack and panic.
- Free online anxiety tests to screen for anxiety. Two minute tests with instant results. Such as:
- Anxiety 101 is a summarized description of anxiety, anxiety disorder, and how to overcome it.
Return to our anxiety disorders signs and symptoms page.
anxietycentre.com: Information, support, and therapy for anxiety disorder and its symptoms, including forgetfulness and memory lapses anxiety symptoms.
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15. DISCLAIMER: Because each body is somewhat chemically unique, and because each person will have a unique mix of symptoms and underlying factors, recovery results may vary. Variances can occur for many reasons, including due to the severity of the condition, the ability of the person to apply the recovery concepts, and the commitment to making behavioral change.
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